Life is a journey.

The only impossible journey is the one you never begin. Anthony Robbins

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Setting GOALS and crushing them.

Eight weeks left before the end of 2018.

WOW, where has the time gone?

I have started to reflect on what I have achieved/ accomplished this year.

Also, what I have not YET achieved this year.

Have you found yourself saying, ‘Oh I wish I could do that’ or ‘I would love to do that’.

Well… I have.

Do not live in regret.

Have a CAN DO attitude.

Why not start setting your goals TODAY.

There is plenty of time to set your goal and start actioning what you want to achieve.

If you start today, you’ll be glad you did.

Do you want to set and achieve your goals?

Here are my FIVE quick tips…

  1. Write down your goals.
  2. Write down when you want to achieve your goal by.
  3. Write down HOW you going to achieve it.
  4. Find an accountability partner.
  5. ACTION ACTION ACTION.

What have you achieved in 2018?

What do you want to achieve 2018/2019?

Leave a comment in the comments box.

CRUSH YOUR GOALS.

Thank you for stopping by.

Tarnya Coley- Best Selling author of Open Doors

Check out my NEW online course- Six steps to success

Small steps, BIG results.

Have you ever felt that you are not making progress?

You put all your efforts into something and you say to yourself, ‘why did I even bother?’

No one even notices.

No one cares.

I have ONE tip for you…

NO NOT GIVE UP.

Keep moving FORWARD.

Small steps every day.

Even when you do not feel like doing anything.

Find the inner strength to PUSH through.

Be that person who will NOT quit.

But be the type of person that will PERSEVERE.

I have been writing an online course which seems like forever.

I thought, why am I evening bothering.

There were so many things that were going against me.

I just couldn’t seem to get a breakthrough.

I had to keep telling myself ‘COME ON, YOU CAN DO IT’.

I  asked myself WHY  was I creating this course?

Who will this course BENEFIT?

Just by asking myself those two questions made me determined NOT to quit.

Knowing your WHY will keep you focused.

It will guide you step by step.

I started to make small progress every day.

This resulted in a BIG result.

I have now completed my Six Steps to Success online course. Feel free to check it out and spread the word.

My encouragement to you today is keeping making small steps every day. As it will end up with BIG results.

Thank you for stopping by.

Tarnya Coley- Bestselling author of Open Doors

Check out my story which has been featured in Purpose Driven Women Magazine.

www.ibelieveican.co.uk

 

 

Highly Effective ways to break bad habits.

I don’t know about you but I find some habits are hard to break? I want to share with you some tips that I have found useful to break bad habits.

Have you ever got yourself into a situation, then thought how do I get out of this habit?

Yes, we sometimes fall into bad habits, however, it is also about replacing them with good habits.

Research by James Clear suggests that bad habits interrupt your life and prevent you from accomplishing your goals. They jeopardise your health — both mentally and physically. And they waste your time and energy.

What habits have you fallen into?

Think about how you will replace it with a good habit.

Here are some tips that may help you:

  • Define the concrete behavior you want to change or develop
  • Identify the triggers
  • Deal with the triggers
  • Develop a substitute plan
  • Get support
  • Reward yourself
  • Be persistent and patient
  • Consider getting professional help

Are you ready to take the challenge?

Thank you for stopping by.

Tarnya Coley- Author of Open Doors

 

3 Steps to boost Self-Discipline.

I think self-discipline is something, it’s like a muscle. The more you exercise it, the stronger it gets.  – Daniel Goldstein

In assessing your level of self-discipline, ask yourself the following questions:

  • Am I setting myself goals for what I want to accomplish each day?
  • Do I take breaks throughout the day?
  • Have I taken steps to limit the distractions and temptations that hinder my progress?
  • Do I give myself a reasonable amount of time to complete tasks?
  • Am I effectively delegating work and decision-making where possible?
  • Am I mindful in my day-to-day work routine?

Always ask yourself the question why am I doing this? The WHY is so important because when you feel like giving up you go back to your WHY.

Improve yourself discipline.

  1. Take frequent breaks: Self-discipline is like a muscle. We can grow and improve our strength with practice, but we can also grow tired, and find our ability to remain in control exhausted.
  2. Remove temptations and distractions: Like many skills, self-discipline is best improved with frequent practice. It is a learned behavior, not an inherent ability, that we can train ourselves to engage in it more often. One of the best ways to set yourself up for success is to remove the things that you find distract you from your work.

The following steps can help you increase your self-control

  1. Make time to make decisions. Decision-making is one of those tasks that often fall exclusively on to leaders. 
  2. Reduce the load. While decision-making may often fall to leaders, delegation is an important tool in preventing yourself from becoming overloaded. 
  3. Positive thinking. This will help you to improve your focus by learning to concentrate on a fixed point, such as your breath while letting emotions or thoughts pass by without affecting you. 

Do you have any tips on how to boost self-discipline? Leave a comment.

A great Ted Talks Video: The battle between your present and future self.

Thank you for stopping by. Have a great day.

Tarnya Coley- Author of Open Doors

NEVER GIVE UP!

Next time you think life is putting obstacles in front of you… WATCH THIS!!!!!

The little girl in the video does NOT quit. Perseverance is the key. WOW, she did it!

Thank you for stopping by.

Tarnya Coley- Author of Open Doors.

Six secrets to building UNSTOPPABLE Self-confidence.

Have you ever found yourself saying ‘I wish I was that confident?’

Have you ever looked at someone and thought wow they ooze so much confidence?

Building true confidence is a gradual process. This process does not happen overnight. Confidence is a state mind, it comes from feelings of well-being.

Here are six secrets for building UNSTOPPABLE self-confidence. The secret is out, I had to share it.

  1. Stop comparing yourself to others. 

Comparing yourself to others can be so damaging. Focus on yourself, your goals and strengths.

2. Be assertive.

Stand up for what you believe in and stick to your principles.

3. Take the limits off.

Stop doubting yourself, keep moving forward and take action.

4. Be positive

Have a different outlook, change your perspective.

5. Change your inner voice

Stop those negative voices. Think positive thoughts.

6. Smile

The act of smiling is strongly associated with positive feelings.

When you feel that your confidence is drifting remember these six secrets for building UNSTOPPABLE confidence.

Have a great day.

Thank you for stopping by.

Tarnya Coley- Best Selling Author of Open Doors

Motivational Speaker & Personal Development Coach

Please join me- Coffee with Tarnya on FB every Monday 11:30am-12:30pm BST

Topic- Confidence

Post a question in the Coffee with Tarnya FB group and I will be on hand to answer all your questions.

 

 

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Topic for today: DISTRACTIONS.

Do you questions & need some advice or tips?

  • How to stay motivated?
  • How to have work life balance?
  • How to stay on top of your game?
  • How to stay disciplined?

Connect with me on Facebook.

Leave me a message, I’d love to hear from you.

Let me know what is going on in your world.

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Thank you for stopping by.

Tarnya Coley- Motivational Speaker & Personal Development Coach.

Author of Open Doors

www.ibelieveican.co.uk