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In these uncertain times we may find ourselves wondering what is going on.
Schools are shut.

Working from home.

More free time.

Restrictions on going out.

You made plans, but now they have been put on hold.

Not sure what to make of it all.

How do you remain positive when there seems to be chaos all around?
Here are a few things that I have been doing to stay focused, I SMILE.

S– Start a gratitude journal or continue writing in your journal.
Write down each day, two things you are grateful for. This will shift your focus and allows you to see that there is always something to be grateful for. You can do this exercise with your children. Members of your family. Call a friend and share your gratitude.

M– Mediate on positive affirmations.

Recite a positive quote in the morning. Think about what it means to you at this time. Share your quote with someone. This is a great exercise because it can transform the way you think and view things

I– Inject some fun into your day.

Dance to some music like no one is watching. Reconnect with old friends. Sing in the shower. Combat boredom and add some fun into your day.

L– Lend a helping hand.

Think about who you can reach out to. This will help you to focus your mind on other things. There are people that need your support. Be that person that extends a lending hand.
I am offering FREE one-hour coaching sessions for individuals who need to refocus and take action. Schedule your call with me today.

E– Enjoy the down time.

We may never get this time again. What is that thing, or in my case the things that you have not got around to do? Don’t overexert yourself. Take one day at a time.

Here are a list of some of the things that I am doing:

  • Decluttering the house, one space at a time.
  • Enrolled onto some free courses.
  • Working on new offers for my business
  • Spending more quality time with family

Reconnect with the things that you have been too busy for.

Remain positive and don’t forget to SMILE.

Share this with someone who you feel may benefit from hearing these tips.

What strategies are you using to remain positive in these uncertain times?
Thank you for stopping by
Tarnya Coley
Personal development coach
Best selling author of Open Doors
Motivational speaker

QUICK TIPS

Let me share how to invest in your yourself personal development.

Whatever you’re feeding yourself on, that is what you become.

You are the biggest investment, and you are worth it. Developing yourself is a priority. I encourage you to make small changes each day. Remember, every day is a school day. If you stop learning,  you’ll stop growing.

Why investing in personal development is important.
1. You will grow
2. You will change
3. You will be more productive
4. You will manage yourself more effectively

According to landmark report, people are on average online for 24 hours a week, twice as long as 10 years ago, with one in five of all adults spending as much as 40 hours a week on the web.
How much time do you spend on your phone? Watching mind numbing TV?  Unproductive tasks? You can not get time back. Once it’s gone, it’s gone.

Is it time to change your habits?

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Continually developing yourself is key. Over the years I have been making small changes as I found myself not being very effective and felt unfulfilled. Change starts with yourself. I decided to make small changes to my daily routine. I started to see the positive impact that it was making. If you make one small change each day, imagine how many things you would have changed by December 31st. Why not start today?

1.Read. Read. Read
What are you reading?
Read for 20 minutes a day. Or listen to an audio book.
On the way to work, listen to motivational messages/ podcast. If you are taking the bus you could read a book/ listen to a book. A study in the UK researched that in England average commuting time per day has risen from 48 minutes to an hour, and one in seven commuters are now spending two hours or more each day travelling to and from work.
That is a lot of time travelling. Use your time effectively.

2. Listen to positive motivational podcasts/ messages
What are you listening to?
It develops positive thinking. These positive messages will inspire you. It can make an impact on you when listening to positive messages.

3. Surround yourself with like-minded people
Who are you spending time with? Iron sharpens iron.
Spend time with people that will elevate, inspire and motivate you.

Tell me who your best friends are and I will tell you who you are. If you run with wolves, you will learn how to howl. But if you associate with eagles, you will learn how to soar. John Mason

4. Focus on your priorities and goals
How do you spend your time?
Wake up 30 minutes or one hour earlier.
Focus on what is important and you will achieve what you set out to do.
Distraction comes in many forms. Make it a habit to change your routine.

What small changes will you make to develop the person within?
If you have started to make small changes, fantastic. Please leave a comment in the comments box below. It may change someone’s life.

Thank you for stopping by.
Tarnya Coley- Best selling author of Open Doors
www.ibelieveican.co.uk

PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT ONLINE COURSE

 

 

“It’s important to take time to contemplate and self-reflect in order to have a fulfilling life in today’s busy world.” Professor Blakey Vermeule

At this time of year, I like to reflect. Personally, I think its good practice to reflect on your journey. Remember not to compare your journey with anyone else. This is your OWN path. Things should be a little less hectic, so take the time to ponder on 2019.

2020 is fast approaching, there has been highs and lows. Are you elated as to what you have achieved in 2019? Celebrating your wins is crucial, no matter how small, small progress is progress.

Self-reflection helps you to look at what you have carried out so far. Reflect on each area of your life and evaluate. If you want to see growth and change in your life, take action.

Firstly, find a quiet place where there will be no distractions. Like me, you may have to get up slightly earlier before the hustle and bustle begins. In this quiet space, it is just you and your thoughts. 

Secondly, have a notepad and pen to jot down your thoughts. Ask yourself these thought-provoking questions and ponder on them.

  • What have I accomplished?
  • What have I not accomplished?
  • How can I do things differently to produce different results?
  • What else do I want/ need to work on?
  • What action will I take in order to reach my goals?
  • How will I navigate the challenges?
  • What support network do I have?

Be honest with yourself as you go through these questions, as the saying goes, honesty is the best policy. By asking yourself these questions it will help you to see where you are on your personal development track. It allows you to clearly see what changes or adjustments you need to make.

Personal development helps you to make improvements in your life. We can sometimes feel stuck in our present circumstances. The unexpected events of life may take us off course. Do not loose heart, stay on track. You may have to reboot some areas in your life. You never know the tough times you are going through will encourage someone and it will develop the strength you need. Do not stay where you are. We can always make changes in various areas, re-examine your priorities. Change starts with YOU.

Create an action plan, this is all part of the personal development process. Never forget that personal development is a lifelong process. We must always be developing.

Four key benefits to personal development.

1. You will be able to make crystal clear goals

2. You will be motivated

3. You will have a better work-life balance

4. It will improve your prospects

What areas of your life do you want to work on?

Do you have a personal development plan? Why not work on it TODAY!

Personal Development is the key to making positive changes.

Take this festive season to reflect, reboot and step into the new year  re-energised & refreshed.

Thank you for stopping by.
Tarnya Coley- Author of Open Doors
www.ibelieveican.co.uk

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LIVING OUTSIDE YOUR COMFORT ZONE

When you step outside your comfort zone, yes it will feel scary. However, once you keep taking those steps it will start to feel easier. Face your fears and venture out and experience personal growth. When you are in your comfort zone, your brain doesn’t want anything to change.  However, living outside your comfort zone creates just enough good stress to ramp up your focus, creativity, pace, and drive, and it helps you respond to life stress when unexpected things happen.

STEPS TO LIVING OUTSIDE YOUR COMFORT ZONE.

To develop your personal development there are several ways to push yourself outside of your comfort zone every day.

1. Don’t take the safe choice
2. Consider other points of views
3. Do what you are afraid of
4. Remember that tomorrow is another day

BENEFITS TO STEPPING OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE.

When I decided to take a leap and give up my job and become a personal development coach, speaker, and author, it was scary. Each day I would do something that scared me. I still take those steps and push myself. I have realised the benefits of living outside my comfort zone. Here are four reasons as to why living outside your comfort zone is beneficial.

1. Personal growth
2. New challenges and experiences rewire your brain and make it more adaptable, stronger, and healthier
3. You will boost your self-confidence
4. Each milestone makes it easier to tackle another milestone
Take that step today

Just do it.

You’ll be glad you did.

Are you living outside your comfort zone?

What will you do today that scares you?

Leave a comment. I look forward to hearing your responses.

Thank you for stopping by.

Tarnya Coley- Author of Open Doors

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FOUR BENEFITS FOR PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT

It is approaching the end of 2018 already.

At this time of year, I like to reflect.

Self-reflecting helps you to look at what you have carried out so far.

Thought provoking questioning goes round and round in my head.

These are some of the questions I have asked myself over the last few weeks.

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What have I accomplished?

What have I not accomplished?

How can I do things differently to produce different results?

What else do I want to work on?

How will I go about doing that?

How will I navigate the challenges?

Personal development helps you to make improvements in your life.

Creating an action plan is all part of the personal development process.

Remember personal development is a lifelong process.

Four benefits to personal development.

  1. You will be able to make crystal clear goals
  2. You will be motivated
  3. You will have a better work-life balance
  4. It will improve your prospects

What areas do you want to work on?

Do you have a personal development plan?

Why not work on it TODAY!

Thank you for stopping by

Tarnya Coley- Author of Open Doors

 

 

 

TOOLS FOR STEPPING INTO YOUR GREATNESS

It is time to live life on a new level.

Remember, we ALL have our own gifts and talents.

We ALL have a purpose to fulfill.

No more stepping in the shadows.

Do not let FEAR stop you from being the AWESOME person you were created to be.

Today is the day for YOU to step into your GREATNESS.

Here are FOUR tools to help you step into your greatness.

  1. Be AUTHENTIC- Just BE YOU
  2. Be BOLD & FEARLESS- Just DO IT
  3. Speak POSITIVE- It CHANGES atmospheres
  4. Be CONFIDENT- Be assured in your own WORTH

I dare you to step into your GREATNESS and live life on a new level.

Thank you for stopping by.

Tarnya Coley- Author of Open Doors

Small steps, BIG results.

Have you ever felt that you are not making progress?

You put all your efforts into something and you say to yourself, ‘why did I even bother?’

No one even notices.

No one cares.

I have ONE tip for you…

NO NOT GIVE UP.

Keep moving FORWARD.

Small steps every day.

Even when you do not feel like doing anything.

Find the inner strength to PUSH through.

Be that person who will NOT quit.

But be the type of person that will PERSEVERE.

I have been writing an online course which seems like forever.

I thought, why am I evening bothering.

There were so many things that were going against me.

I just couldn’t seem to get a breakthrough.

I had to keep telling myself ‘COME ON, YOU CAN DO IT’.

I  asked myself WHY  was I creating this course?

Who will this course BENEFIT?

Just by asking myself those two questions made me determined NOT to quit.

Knowing your WHY will keep you focused.

It will guide you step by step.

I started to make small progress every day.

This resulted in a BIG result.

I have now completed my Six Steps to Success online course. Feel free to check it out and spread the word.

My encouragement to you today is keeping making small steps every day. As it will end up with BIG results.

Thank you for stopping by.

Tarnya Coley- Bestselling author of Open Doors

Check out my story which has been featured in Purpose Driven Women Magazine.

www.ibelieveican.co.uk